10 Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist

9) They’re Hot and Cold (9 of 10)

9) They’re Hot and Cold (9 of 10)

As mentioned in slide #1, narcissists come on strong during the love bombing stage. Once they reel you in, they quickly turn cold and attempt to devalue you as often as possible. If they feel you’re slipping away, they may turn on the charm again or attempt to confuse you with gaslighting techniques (mentioned in #5).

This can continue for years, and it makes difficult for you to end the relationship because things always seem to improve right as you reach your breaking point.